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February 2023 - Self-Acceptance

February 2023 - Self-Acceptance

What would it feel like if you chose to unconditionally accept yourself as you are right now? To love yourself with all your human failings and imperfections (not in spite of them)?

Contrary to how it may seem, self-acceptance isn't about stagnating or giving up on evolving as a person. In fact, I find that self-acceptance provides the nurturing support that helps me continue to grow. The love and compassion we choose to offer ourselves doesn't need to be contingent on some activity or outcome. We are enough right now, in this moment, as-is.

September 2020 - Self-Compassion

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September 2020 - Self-Compassion

Being gentle with ourselves.

Giving ourselves grace.

Accepting ourselves as we are.

These are challenging times, and now more than ever we need to offer ourselves as much self-compassion as we can. This month's invitation is to disregard the judgement of your inner critic. Put less pressure on yourself. Accept that you are perfectly imperfect. And, as best as you can, love yourself unconditionally.

February 2020 - Self-Compassion

February 2020 - Self-Compassion

In this month of love and affection, I invite you to give yourself some love.

You can accept yourself as you are with all your perfect imperfections. You can give yourself kindness and grace when you make mistakes or experience disappointments. You can unburden yourself from any grudges and resentments that are weighing you down.

Consider other heart-centered ways to give yourself warmth, compassion, and whatever else you may need right now. You deserve it.

The Self Compassion of Honoring What You Need

The Self Compassion of Honoring What You Need

When we think about self-compassion, it is often associated with the ideas of being kind to oneself and letting go of our inner critic.  These are unquestionably important elements, but not really related to the insight I recently had. 

The form of self-compassion that I’m thinking about is when we listen to our hearts and honor what we need, even if this is different from what we think we want.